By lighting I mean, low lighting. Candles in a room, lamps, and especially the flicker lights in a bedroom can truly change the mood of a house. Too harsh of lighting can make guests and yourself feel uptight. Low lights help everyone relax and de-stress. Think about when you go to a spa, there is rarely fluorescent rays shining on you.
Next, use plush to your advantage. Plush comes in many shapes and forms. Most importantly those throw pillows and throw blankets. There are some truly elegant ones out there. (I especially love the faux fur ones) Throw some extra pillows and a cozy blanket on the couch and you'll be napping before you can even yawn.
Do things like this in each important room of your house can completely change your setting. Go from a stuffy old house to a warm and cozy cabin,
